Vegetables of Life.....

This title may not grab a lot of people's attention but you tuned in and I thank u. First of all, we all go through this stage of life. You are all vegetables of life. I opened my damn eyes several years ago, but was mislead down the wrong path with all the religious nuts and now I am back to reality. I'm not saying that I'm right, but it's where I am at this point in my life. You, my friend, don't have to go through this at all. But you do.....

People have the same job, same issues, same cash problems, same crrap they put up with every day. Change your job. Maybe not right now with the economy situation (lawl). If you hate your job, there's a better one out there; probably with more pay. I changed my job last year and it was an amazing change. Don't like the issues you go through every day....change your situation. Stop taking crap off of people. No one should be miserable because someone else enjoys making u that way. Got issues with your church situation? Change churchs. You don't have to go there. There are too many to choose from. I, personally, do not go. That's a whole different blog.

People, you've got to stop worrying about other people's feelings. Make yourself happy once in awhile. Do something for you. Some of the sheeple will probably disagree with this way of thinking but they are trained to think the other way. Life has too many complications already. Make it easier on yourself.

Thanks for reading and I know you enjoyed. If not, that's fine too. I enjoyed writing it.

Everybody Hurts......Sometimes

You may remember a song back in the late 80s if I'm not mistaken....Everybody Hurts by R.E.M. If you haven't heard it, you should go check it out.

Anyway, are you hurting? I think we all have our way of dealing with the hurt in our lives. I , as most people know, tend to be pissed most of my life. What people don't know is that I am in a great mood most of the time...just seems like people around you tend to be on edge and never happy with their lives.

I'll be one of the first to admit that I get frustrated with the people around me on a daily basis. I'm married to a holy-roller which I am not. I have a pre-teen...nuff said. I work over 65 hours a week. I'm freaking exhausted. I have lots of shit that pisses me off.

My question though....are you hurting? What makes u feel this way? Who is the source of the hurt? Why do u allow it?

I don't offer the best advice in the world but I offer u what works for me. I have become great at ignoring most people. I don't let them know that they are bothering me. The down side is all the tension has to come out at some point. That's when u look like an asshole to people. They tend to forget all the shit they've done to push u this far.

I hurt....sometimes. I am confident in my beliefs and my actions. It hurts when others don't respect my views and what to impose their views on me. I don't need your brighter side of life as I think mine is just as good if not better. Change your surroundings. Don't allow someone to try to rule your life. Life is too short to not enjoy it. Live life to the fullest. There's no room for hurt....well, sometimes.